Wednesday, June 25, 2008

Everyone needs a space of their own

One of the first things I ask a client when doing a Home and Lifestyle consultation is"Does everyone who lives here have a place they can go if they want to be alone?"

When people choose to be together, they usually get on pretty well; if they are together when they would prefer not to be we sometimes get disharmony.

Sometimes we find someone goes out to the pub, or to tinker in the garage, because there is nowhere in the house they can be alone.

The first thing is to recognise that it is fine for people to want time alone. Half an hour can make a big difference to someone who wants time to chill, get their thoughts and emotions together.

So where do we find the space?

For children it will often be their bedroom. If they share a room with a sibling, create a system to split the time - perhaps a timetable or a sign on the door with a timer. A chair in the corner of the bedroom may work well for you as well. Take some time to tidy and make the space look welcoming. Put some magazines or books nearby. And create a view from your chair - hang a mirror so it reflects something attractive or a picture to look at.

If all else fails, the car may be the answer. On a two week holiday I have been known to leave the family in the hotel room and drive around the corner to read for an hour.

The key to acceptance of this behaviour is to come back sunny and bright so everyone sees the upside.

Have a great day!

Jennifer.

Home and Lifestyle consultations can be arranged worldwide or by telephone using digital photographs. Contact Jennifer at www.homestyle.co.nz

Thursday, June 12, 2008

Inspired and Inspiring - Dr Irena Yashin-Shaw

Wow! I attending an inspired and inspiring event at the Christchurch Chapter of National Speakers Association New Zealand this Tuesday: Dr Irena Yashin-Shaw www.speakingedge.com.au gave us a simple, usable approach to connecting and synergising all the ideas, information and experience we have across the diverse areas of our lives.

Irena is a voice, speech and communication specialist and spoke with specific reference to developing our speaking repetoire, but the principles could be applied to creativity in any area we want to take a leap forward.

For anyone who wishes to persuade with the voice, take a look at Irena's website www.speakingedge.com.au - thank you for your generosity, Irena!

Have a great day!

Jennifer.

Tuesday, June 10, 2008

Positive Energy in Creating Your Home

In line with the Law of Attraction, I use the following process for transforming a room in my home, whether from chaos to gorgeous, or just creating a new mood.
  1. Get a clear vision of how I want it too look
  2. Step into that vision in my mind and feel great in it
  3. (This may mean letting go of resentment if someone else contributed to the mess)
  4. Once I feel great, I just let it happen - let my subconscious take over. I find myself moving things around in a state of flow, and before I know it, it's done.

If I don't get into that feeling-great state, I don't tidy up!

Try it!

Cheers,

Jennifer.

For Jennifer's audio products including "How to Prepare a House For Sale" and Home Style services see http://www.homestyle.co.nz/

Saturday, June 7, 2008

How to Make a Room Seem Bigger

Hi,

Here's a simple tip for enjoying your home more.

Our sense of space is not dictated so much by the actual size of the room, but by how far we can see. This means we can make a room seem larger by extending the views.

There are a few simple ways we can do this:
  • Open curtains and blinds so you can see out better
  • Cut back foliage outside windows
  • Place a visual focal point at the end of the view outside to draw the eye out
  • Open doors to other rooms and place visual focal points at the end of those view
  • Hang pictures with perspective, such as landscapes or interiors of buildings
  • Use mirrors to bring long views back to the doorway to the room, or anywhere you sit

The other important thing is to have a clear walking path through the room - even a large room feels cramped if you can't move around it easily.

Imagine standing looking at a blank wall. Now replace the wall in your mind with a view out over a harbour or mountains. Feel the space expand?

Have a great day!

Jennifer.

For Jennifer's audio products and Home Style services see http://www.homestyle.co.nz/

Tuesday, June 3, 2008

How to Prepare a House For Sale

Big news! I am taking a new direction with my business and life. (Work IS life, right?)

Previously primarily a Home Staging and Furniture Rental business - lots of fun, but very much a local market - I am now moving to being a global "weightless" business (if you don't count me.) That means selling the furniture and accessories - ideally to someone who would love to have a similar successful little Christchurch-based business, contact me if you live in Christchurch and you're interested - and focusing on my passions, which are consultations, professional speaking, newspaper and magazine articles and audio products.

My new MP3 audio "How to Prepare a House For Sale" is available from the Home Style website www.homestyle.co.nz. There's a free sample track "Instant Improvements" to try, or for those needing to prepare for sale quickly.

It took a long time to build up the courage to produce the audio - every time the recording studio sent a new version it would sit for a month before I could bring myself to listen to it.

But I'm past that now, in fact, I am now producing audio Interviews with Experts myself. More on that later.

Cheers,

Jennifer.